Tips for Parents to Help
their Children Learn a New Language
Continue to speak your native language at home, at least
part of the time, even if learning the host language is very important
to you. Children will learn a second language more easily if they
are strong in a first. You need to ensure that they continue their
language development in your native tongue.
At the same time, be a role model for learning the host language
for your children. Show them that you think learning the language
is a good thing to do, and that you are willing to make mistakes in
the process of learning.
Look for ways your child can practice the language in private.
It feels less risky to speak in small groups or to one other person.
Don't be surprised if your children start to correct your language!
They may learn it more quickly than you and will be proud of what
they have learned.
Understand that children often have a "silent period"
when they first learn a new language - a time when they will not
speak the language. This may last as long as six months, although
it usually does not. Be patient. Your child is certainly learning
to understand during this period, even if he/she is not speaking it.
Some children wait until they can speak in complete, perfect sentences
before they start to talk aloud.
Remember that children who are learning two languages at once are
processing both languages, and may appear to be slower at speaking
and reading than their friends. Do not panic. They are doing something
more difficult. The reward will be knowing two languages and having
a deep understanding of the function of language.
Realize that it takes three to seven years to learn a language
well. Your child may be speaking competently within six months
or a year, but to function fully in school (or for you, in your adult
life), it takes much longer.
Older children may take longer than younger children to learn a
new language. They are learning more complex language forms and
more complex school material (math, science, history) at the same
time as the new language. And, they may be more shy about speaking
a second language in front of other people.
There is an emotional aspect to learning a second language.
If learning this new language has a positive tone to it - your child
wants to learn, and you want him/her to learn it too - learning will
be faster. Do not pressure your child or be critical of how quickly
he/she is learning the language.